If there’s one person in the world you should trust, it’s your partner. A solid relationship can’t work without trust, but sometimes you can’t help but wonder if they’re as invested in the relationship as you are.
If you have these feelings then they’ll likely get even stronger when you get engaged. Getting married is a huge commitment and you’ll only want to go ahead if you know your partner can be trusted, and it’s perfectly natural to have a few doubts.
And added to that, you have the problem of stag and hen parties. Your marriage is a celebration of your love but part of the process involves a ‘celebration’ of freedom, and one that is evolving into a bigger event in recent years. It used to be just a few drinks with friends but now there’s a culture of huge nights or weekends out, heavily fuelled by alcohol.
A stag and hen party is almost like a final test. Will your partner behave, or will the push the boundaries too far? Will they see it as their last chance to enjoy that ‘freedom’? Due to the nature of these events you’ll likely never know, but what if you could find out?
A private investigator can attend a stag or hen party and keep an eye on proceedings from afar, looking out for any behaviours that you’ve identified word be crossing the line. And because you’re using a professional investigator instead of a friend, they’ll be discreet enough that your partner will never know.
Understandably, it can be difficult to make the decision to hire an investigator to keep track of a stag or hen party. You don’t want to be seen as the untrusting partner. But as discretion is assured, the only person who’ll know is you – and you’ll enjoy complete peace of mind.
If you want to know more about pre-nuptial investigation, including stag and hen parties, call EJM investigations on 01772 334700.